{"id":76760,"date":"2021-06-01T10:46:33","date_gmt":"2021-06-01T14:46:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newsroom.carleton.ca\/?post_type=cu_story&#038;p=76760"},"modified":"2025-10-10T10:14:40","modified_gmt":"2025-10-10T14:14:40","slug":"pride-month-being-different-actually-normal","status":"publish","type":"cu_story","link":"https:\/\/carleton.ca\/news\/story\/pride-month-being-different-actually-normal\/","title":{"rendered":"Celebrating Pride Month: &#8216;Being Different is Actually Quite Normal&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<section class=\"w-screen px-6 cu-section cu-section--white ml-offset-center md:px-8 lg:px-14\">\n    <div class=\"space-y-6 cu-max-w-child-max  md:space-y-10 cu-prose-first-last\">\n\n        \n                    \n                    \n            \n    <div class=\"cu-wideimage relative flex items-center justify-center mx-auto px-8 overflow-hidden md:px-16 rounded-xl not-prose  my-6 md:my-12 first:mt-0 bg-opacity-50 bg-cover bg-cu-black-50 pt-24 pb-32 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<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n<p>Philip Macho Commonda, a two-spirit Algonquin from the Kitigan Zibi Anishinabeg community, is in many ways a connector.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since August 2020, he has been the Algonquin Community Liaison Officer with Carleton\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/carleton.ca\/indigenous\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Centre for Indigenous Initiatives (CII)<\/a>, helping to build and maintain connections between the university and surrounding Algonquin communities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full wp-image-76769\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" src=\"https:\/\/newsroom.carleton.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/philip-macho-commonda-800w-1.jpg\" alt=\"Philip Macho Commonda\" class=\"wp-image-76769\" srcset=\"https:\/\/carleton.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/162\/philip-macho-commonda-800w-1.jpg 800w, 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cu-component-spacing\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cMy role is to ensure that Carleton and the Algonquin communities work together to ensure a culturally rich perspective.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>At Carleton, he is also part of advisory groups that further Indigenous perspectives, such as renaming Carleton University buildings to have a culturally important names, and one that ensures respectful community engagement when studying Indigenous research.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He has an extensive experience in working with youth and a strong passion for helping students succeed, in both academic and personal ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/newsroom.carleton.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/philip-macho-commonda-225w-1.jpg\" alt=\"Philip Macho Commonda\" class=\"wp-image-76768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/carleton.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/162\/philip-macho-commonda-225w-1.jpg 225w, https:\/\/carleton.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/162\/philip-macho-commonda-225w-1-200x267.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Pride is important to Commonda because, in his teenage years, he used to think being two-spirit was negative. With age and maturity, however, he recognized that he had blazed trails for the younger generation of 2SLGBTQ+ people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBeing a part of such a diverse community is a chance to show extreme bravery in each and every queer person,\u201d he says. \u201cComing from a small community, it has been life-altering to know that my actions are helping the upcoming generations showcase their own pride.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For Commonda, Indigenous queer representation matters within a university environment since many young people leave their sometimes small and isolated communities to attend post-secondary education.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhile attending school they have the freedom to explore who they are and what interests them,\u201d says Commonda.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"not-prose cu-quote cu-component-spacing\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cWith open and proud faculty and staff, and by adopting a safe and open space, we can show students that being different is actually quite normal.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright size-full wp-image-76771\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"225\" height=\"113\" src=\"https:\/\/newsroom.carleton.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/dave-marshall-leadership-awards-225w-1.jpg\" alt=\"Dave Marshall Leadership Award recipients\" class=\"wp-image-76771\" srcset=\"https:\/\/carleton.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/162\/dave-marshall-leadership-awards-225w-1.jpg 225w, https:\/\/carleton.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/162\/dave-marshall-leadership-awards-225w-1-200x100.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Commonda was a 2020 Dave Marshall Leadership Award recipient in the Campus category.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>While Commonda completed a Bachelor of Science in Environmental Biology and Technology at Nipissing University, he was a regular volunteer and support worker. Upon graduating in April 2020, he received the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nipissingu.ca\/departments\/student-development-and-services\/dmla\/2020-award-recipients#commonda\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Dave Marshall Leadership Award<\/a> and the Office of Indigenous Initiatives Student Appreciation Award for his generosity and welcoming positivity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cEach department within the university has the responsibility to open their doors to our queer students,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"not-prose cu-quote cu-component-spacing\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cUniversity is not only a place for academia, but also for learning who you are as a person.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Post-secondary education has come leaps and bounds towards acceptance, says Commonda, but that doesn\u2019t mean innovative thinking should plateau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cMy hope is that Carleton University continues to push boundaries and makes the voice of the 2SLGBTQ+ community an equal one.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During Pride Month, Carleton University is celebrating some of the many achievements and contributions of our 2SLGBTQ+ community members. Visit our Pride Month page through the month of June to read new stories about them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8212;<br>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/newsroom.carleton.ca\/our-stories\/\">More Stories<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Philip Macho Commonda, a two-spirit Algonquin from the Kitigan Zibi Anishinabeg community, is in many ways a connector. 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