{"id":742,"date":"2020-10-02T09:01:19","date_gmt":"2020-10-02T13:01:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/carleton.ca\/planforgood\/?page_id=742"},"modified":"2023-09-05T13:54:28","modified_gmt":"2023-09-05T17:54:28","slug":"chloe-graf-a-legacy-of-determination","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/carleton.ca\/planforgood\/chloe-graf-a-legacy-of-determination\/","title":{"rendered":"Chloe Graf – A Legacy of Determination"},"content":{"rendered":"
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By: Laura Byrne Paquet, BJ\/87
\nGiving Insight Fall 2020 edition<\/p>\n

Chloe Graf rarely let much stand in her way. \u201cDetermined\u2019 was definitely a word that you would use for her,\u201d recalls her mother, Pauline Graf, with a smile.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe was very strong willed, but that was great,\u201d says her father, Dr. Daryl Graf, prompting a rueful laugh from both parents.<\/p>\n

Chloe passed away in 2017, due to muscular dystrophy, at age 26. When she was born, doctors gave her four years to live. Instead, at four, she received an electronic wheelchair and immediately embraced the freedom it offered. She and the family\u2019s golden retriever, Tawny, became well known across their Ottawa neighbourhood as they took long walks together.<\/p>\n

Chloe\u2019s affection for animals extended far beyond Tawny. When she came across YouTube videos about disabled animals in India, she did extensive research, then donated money to the Indian charity that had posted the videos.<\/p>\n

Chloe will continue to give, in a way, because her parents and her grandfather, Robert Blair, have established the Chloe Graf Memorial Scholarship. To be funded through donations and legacy bequests, it will be awarded to outstanding undergraduate students: one enrolled in the History program and another enrolled in the Women\u2019s and Gender Studies program. Preference will be given to students with disabilities.<\/p>\n

An avid reader who received Carleton\u2019s John and Carol Strong Book Prize for outstanding writing, Chloe was interested in both programs and was close to earning her B.A. in History when she passed away.<\/p>\n

\u201cI remember Chloe talking often about how she longed to know what the emotional lives of others were like in ages past throughout the ancient world\u2014how she wanted to slip into their lives and really feel what they felt for a day,\u201d said Daryl in his eulogy for her.<\/p>\n

When she chose to pursue that interest in Carleton, she was adding to the Graf family\u2019s longstanding ties to the university. Daryl earned his master\u2019s and Ph.D. in computer science at Carleton, Pauline studied there, and Chloe\u2019s sister Alex is an alumna, too.<\/p>\n

As well as studying, Chloe relished the independence she enjoyed at Carleton, where she lived in residence, joined a wheelchair hockey team and became a strong advocate for LGBTQ+ issues.<\/p>\n

Her family says setting up the scholarship was a straightforward process. Carleton\u2019s Personal and Planned Giving team worked closely with them to determine their interests and to provide the wording for their wills. The team is also setting up a giving page on futurefunder.ca that will allow Chloe\u2019s family and friends to contribute to the scholarship, so that future students can pursue the topics that gave her so much joy.<\/p>\n

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